This could just as easily be a therapy session

Sometimes I sit in a meeting and think:

“This could just as easily be a therapy session.” 😉

Why? Because customers do not simply want to buy a solution—they want to feel understood.

At first, the discussion is often not about technology or ROI at all, but about questions such as:

  • “What happens if my team does not accept the new system?”
  • “How do I prevent the project from being overwhelmed by day-to-day business?”
  • “Can I really rely on the solution working?”

This is where systems sales begins for me: not with the product, but with the people.

I need to listen, ask questions, translate—and sometimes provide reassurance. The technology comes later. Once a customer trusts me, they will usually also trust the path we take together towards the solution.

💡 My experience: Trust is often more important than the specification. A specification can be adapted and optimised; lost trust, however, is very difficult to regain.

👉 I would be interested to hear: When did you realise that a customer truly trusted you?

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