Sitting opposite or beside the customer?

“The best solution emerges when the customer is not sitting opposite you, but beside you.”

For me, this sentence captures what systems sales is all about:

Not confrontation, but collaboration.

When I sit at the table with customers, the objective is not to “play through” my slides against their requirements.

It is about sitting beside them:
👉 listening,
👉 thinking ahead,
👉 navigating complexity together.

The best projects are those in which, at some point, we no longer feel like “customer and supplier”, but like one team with a shared goal.

💡 My experience: trust does not develop face to face—it develops shoulder to shoulder.

👉 How about you: when did you last experience an “us versus them” becoming genuine collaboration?